Over the past
few years variations of the now famous World War II poster, “Keep Calm and
Carry On” have spread from the internet to the mass market adorning bags,
poster, and coffee mugs. Most are
intended to be funny and convey either motivational messages like, “Keep Calm
and Love Life” to those invoking some film or television program or characters
like, “Keep Calm and Use the Force”, while others pertain to a lifestyle like,
“Keep Calm and Smoke Weed”. So it was
inevitable that an Assassin’s Creed variation would emerge, “Keep Calm and
Follow the Creed”.
I would guess
that fans of the video game franchise had a laugh and maybe posted it on their
webpages, but there is actually some valuable
life advice in remembering to keep calm and follow the Creed.
Here are some ways
to Keep Calm and Follow the Creed.
Remember Nothing is True…
Accept
Diversity and Freedom
Everyone has
their own perspective on reality and most people see theirs as the right one,
so without condoning or condemning accept the existence of these other
realities and respect the rights of others to have them. Expecting or forcing others
to conform to your ideas of how they should think or act only frustrates you
and angers them.
This Too
Shall Pass
Life is
change. Today’s reality, good or bad,
will be tomorrow’s memory and memories are just thoughts. If today is good, then appreciate it while it
lasts. If today is bad, don’t worry,
because it will not last forever and tomorrow might be better.
Do Not Allow
Yourself to Become Too Attached To Things
A primary
source of human sorrow is the real or imagined loss of things. These “things” can be anything – possessions,
places, a certain lifestyle, public services, respect or love, cherished beliefs, relationships with others,
and even youth, strength, and beauty. We
may have these things for years or decades but in the end they will all change
and will all pass. Learn to accept that
truth.
Be Wary of
the Fear Impulse
A primary
source of human anger, cruelty, and frustration is their fear that they will
not get the things they want or that they may lose the things they have. Recognise this impulse in yourself and others
and make allowances for both. For
yourself, accept that fear is not real.
It is the emotional response to a perceived threat which may be real or
imagined. Fear simply tells us to pay
attention and should not be allowed to motivate our actions, cloud the mind, or
force us into despair.
Don’t Deal In
Hypotheticals
Hypotheticals,
assumptions, and preconceptions are just opinions and speculations elevated falsely
to the level of truth. People often have
strong emotional reactions to their idea of things rather than the reality of
things. Learn to look at what is and not
what you think might be or might happen.
Accept That
You (And Others) Are Most Likely Wrong
Consider the
potential cognitive biases of yourselves and others that can cloud
understanding the situation or the people involved.
Remember Everything Is Permitted…
Do Not Limit
Yourself
Often, people
cannot do something because they have been socially conditioned not to do it;
as a result, certain actions go against their programming. The program punishes violations with emotions
like fear, anger, guilt, shame, or a vague internal resistance. Learn to recognise and overcome your limiting
programming to do what you deem necessary and do not be limited in your actions
by the opinions of other people, whether these opinions are actual opinions or
those that you imagine others to have.
Learn to Limit
Yourself
A common
feature of human existence is doing what we do not want to do now in order to
get something better later. This
requires self-discipline and deferred gratification. These qualities have been identified as a key
feature in people who succeed in life.
Look For New Opportunities and Possibilities
Your
existence is a blank page full of possibilities. It is up to you to fill that page. Decide what kind of life you want and make it
happen.
Recognise What
Can and Cannot Be Changed
Everything is
permitted does not mean that every action is wise. There are things you can change and things
you cannot. Accept what cannot be
changed and change the things you can.
Focus On What
is Important and Let Go of the Trivial
Whatever we
focus on has importance. This is
illustrated in games where the player is so focused on gaining collectibles
that it becomes the most important activity in their life until they change
their perspective and realise how trivial it really is. These are referred to as “first world
problem”. Trivial matters that people
become angry or upset about because they do not have to worry about serious
survival issues. Take a moment and ask
yourself if your crisis is really that important.
Cultivate
Your Power and Will
Power is
simply the means to work your will in the world. Everything may be permitted, but acting on
that permission is limited by the power at your disposal and your willingness
to use that power. The most common form
of power is material power in the form of money. Being low in this resource limits your range
of actions. This is also true if you
have the resources but lack the will to use it.
Building your resources before they are needed will give you the power
to act when the crisis comes.
Accept the
Consequences of Your Actions,
Whether they
be glorious or tragic; celebrate the good outcomes and learn from the negative
ones.
LOVE IT!
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